When this serial started it had something fresh to give to audience .But now after so many episodes Anupama herself is very diplomatic... On 1 hand she gives lectures about all good and bad things in the world.And on the other hand she herself isbliving with a man in a live in relationship. Now after she gets a man she is least concerned about her kids and selfish to live only her own life.. This is not what is suppose to be.She should have first made a mark for herself and her work.But as soon as she gets a man herself she isn't concerned about the world..The producers have changed the basic nature of Anupama..And this is not what is expected out of the show .