I love and respect each of these wonderful, incredible, and strong individuals. However, Melody and Montel... Grow up. We are eight seasons in and you both are acting as if you still have feelings for one another. Obviously you do because the energy you take to hate one another shows that you value that person enough to give that much energy towards them. So what if you both are invited to a party. You both are forcing your friends to take sides and that is not fair to them. Makes it weird. It's going to be a point that they will just distance themselves from both of you until you both grow up. Honestly I truly think both of you are so beautiful and give so much. However, it's heartbreaking and disappointing.