The show is mediocre at best. I dont know how it rates at a 4.5. Ray has to be the biggest idiot next to Doug Heffernan. A woman like Debra, a well educated woman would ever fall for a nit wit like Ray in real life. I do find Robert, played by Brad Garrett to be fairly funny. Coming from an Italian family, I can probably identify with Frank the most with the comments about food. Otherwise, this show is on only when there is absolutely nothing else to watch. I checked the ratings to see if others found this show to be as stupid as I do, and discovered most watched the show because of memories of watching it with a family member, which I can relate to as well.