This is such a wonderful book - I listened to the audiobook version, and then I listened again while reading the text, because I needed to highlight passages. I listen to many audiobooks 2 or even 10 times. This book was the first time I felt like “I NEED these sentences where I can easily find them again”
Here’s a really beautiful quote-
“I kept trying on the idea that I was now a father, and I didn’t know what to do with it; it was as though I had suddenly been told that I was still myself and also a shooting star.” 💫
I have always strongly preferred listening to audiobooks narrated by the author. Now, no matter what book I’m listening to, I’m going to be disappointed that Andrew Solomon isn’t reading it to me. 😜
Last night, when I realized that there was a documentary too, I rented it immediately and I was SO into it- crying, clapping, gasping, and just generally acting like an obnoxious teenager at the movie theater -my husband, who was in the bedroom, shouted to me “honey, I think you need to take a break”.
I did NOT take a break, lol…of course, the book is just so much MORE than there is in the movie, but I am someone who wants hours and hours of the fascinating nuance that really makes you think…
Listen to/Read the book, then watch the movie, then watch it again with your parents or children - I’m watching it with my mom tonight!
(My mother’s baby brother, my uncle Robby, had Down’s syndrome, was a prolific artist and huge Star Trek Fan, and was the most popular and beloved person in our family. After my grandma and then my grandpa died, my little brother, my sister, and me and my husband all moved in to my grandparents house to take care of him until he died…she is going to love the “family of friends”) ♥️♥️♥️