Celine Songโs 2023 debut, Past Lives, was released to critical acclaim, earning nominations for Best Picture and Best Original Screenplay at the Academy Awards.
The story follows Nora and Hae Sung, childhood friends in Korea who are separated when Noraโs family emigrates to Canada. Years later, they reconnect online and begin to rekindle their bond, only to drift apart again. Eventually, Hae Sung visits Nora in New York, where she now lives with her husband, Arthur.
All of this unfolds under the idea of In-Yun, a Korean concept suggesting that people are connected across lifetimes through fate, the result of thousands of interactions in past lives.
Most of the film is built on silence, long pauses, and glances. Thereโs very little actual interaction or exploration of who these characters are. They act like theyโre living a remarkable love story, but the truth is, they donโt have much of anything to say to each other, and it feels routine. Nora and Hae Sung met in grade school at the age of twelve. Then twelve years later, Hae Sung tracks Nora down on Facebook. He messages her on Skype. Another twelve years pass before he travels to New York to see her. At one point, he says:
โWhat if Iโd come to New York twelve years ago? What if you had never left Seoul? If you hadnโt just left like that, and we just grew up togetherโฆ would I still have looked for you? Would we have dated? Broken up? Gotten married? Had kids?โ
For a film so fascinated by fate, its characters donโt seem to believe in it. Thatโs a whole lot of what-ifs for someone who supposedly believes in destiny.
And all this longing ignores the fact that Nora is happily married to a man she met unexpectedly at a retreatโsomething you might call fate.
Which brings me to Materialists.
Celine Song is back with another story of three characters, two men and one woman (again), in New York City (again), confronting love, destiny, and the choices that shape a life (again). In Past Lives, the decades-spanning structure gave us glimpses into who these people were. But here, the character background is thinner. We see the homes of the two menโone rich, one poorโbut learn almost nothing about the protagonist, Lucy. We donโt know how she lives, what she loves, or what she does outside of work. Without that, there are no stakes. We canโt root for her.
Lucy describes herself as hard to please, difficult, judgmental, and superficial. So when emotional and revelatory moments arrive, they fall flat. Weโre not given enough to care. Sheโs in love with the idea of both men but chooses the one who feels most familiar: the one she knows how to fight with, the one she can control, the one whose apartment feels second nature. The man who is second best.
I appreciate the nods to the pitfalls of modern dating, but the film, like Past Lives, just didnโt land for me. Maybe thatโs because Iโve worked hard to build healthy relationships. No what-ifs, no regrets. A conscious, all-in kind of love. Every past relationship Iโve had isnโt a failureโitโs a foundation, each one making the next better. And thatโs true. Everything, for me, is always better than the last. Love is not an idea of a person. Love is not a backup plan.