How can i find out if my boyfriend just catfished me after 5 yrs of online dating and over $30,000 later and have never ever received nothing back in return? he lives in Accra Ghana I've never met him in person but have talked on the phone and video chatted with him. He is who The same person in the pictures I have of him. I JUST WANT TO MAKE SURE I WASN'T USED JUST FOR MY MONEY AND GIFTS I SENT HIM.