Such a sad story. I hope you both will be able to heal your marriage. Lauren is trapped in a terrible marriage with a man who got his revenge by writing a book about how awful she is for the whole world to see including her children. At the end of the book Harrison speaks about his continued rage, instead of their renewed love for each other. They need to work on their marriage this time, talk about the affair, truly forgive each other and start over burying their old marriage and make a new marriage full of love, compassion, companionship, and passion. It could be done, we did it in our marriage 10 years ago. If they can’t heal their marriage divorce would be better than continuing to hurt each other with mean sarcastic comments for the next 40 years, and teaching their children to degrade their future spouse.