Ok ladies please take time to heal yourselves. You are seeking love from something far away due to some childhood issues you need to work through. If I had any advice seek therapy for real not just one session, stop dating and fall in love with yourselves, no more surgeries, concentrate on yourselves as individuals, stop competing with one another and please just stop having sex get to know people fire real. Stop being superficial it's so much more than being pretty and quit buying love. I know this maybe hard to digest but I am saying this to you for your own good. Please just think about what people are saying it's for your benefit. I will pray that you both heal