Unrealistic, ar least in my case. 20 years post divorce I am still treated like an insignificant piece of garbage.
The hard fact is that some people hate forever.
The only truth is that divorce is walking death. Your former spouse has your children still look at you as dirt.
I paid millions of dollars. It did me no damn good. My children either do not speak with me often, or worse, my oldest son does not speak to me, his mother or brothers. I have a 3 year old granddaughter that none of us have ever met or seen a photograph of her.
That is what divorce is all the way until death......