I hate when books make statements like
"God you are so tight, are you a virgin? "
"No I am not, but would you rather I have sex and doesn't make it feel as good(tight) as it does"
At several instances author implies that having sex wears vagina down, and it becomes loose
Nope, it is just a myth
The dilation of vagina occurs during arousal to welcome the intercourse,
And then returns to it's normal width after the activity
Means if you think your partner is too tight, that would mean they aren't aroused enough (translation: they might not be enjoying it as much)
I don't know why authors don't research properly, or if they outright ignore the facts and go with whatever shit society is saying to make the book more appealing