This book was so helpful. As a mom of two estranged adult children, I was so thankful to have someone to one, confirm how I was already doing to wisely move forward. Two, help with healing of areas where I wasn't fully healed of, or may need continual healing. Three, gave me a tool to give to other parents of estranged adult children. I bought the book about a month ago, then after being only partially finished, I bought four more copies. I have already given four away.