Everyone has a right to tell their story and give their version of things that happen to them, and everyone of us can relate to that. I think it’s important to remember this fact if you choose to watch this. It is just the people involved giving their version of events. You can question their methods of doing that, but you cannot deny them that. Then you can choose whether or not you take part in it. Let them have their say, hope they will feel better for it, and then hopefully they will quietly recoil with their family and friends, avoiding drawing attention to themselves and just getting on with what they want to give back to the world. I hope they will, anyway. But, let them have their say.
I think Harry and Meghan have been quite tasteful so far in that they have taken great care not to point fingers who show and negativity towards their Royal relatives. A lot of what they talk about is quite specific about their experiences. While it is hard to watch sometimes, and sometimes sounds like a pity party, it is really refreshing to hear their version of events from them directly. It certainly hasn’t changed my opinions whatsoever. I have always been agnostic about Harry, I have also always been agnostic about the King and Prince William. That doesn’t change.
And if anything, I appreciate the senior Royals even more for their hard work, sacrifice: because they don’t get to have a Netflix documentary and have their say. I wouldn’t want to be a Royal for anything. I don’t envy their fate for a single second, and I admire HRH King Charles, Camilla, Prince and Princess of Wales for bearing that burden and duty with the greatest elegance. Harry made a choice and that was his to make. Fair play to him. But he can’t have the best of both worlds. He cannot leave and expect the privileges. It might be his birth-right but that does not come without duty. I think Harry gets this, maybe Meghan less so.
However, I am happy for Harry. They seem like a wonderful match and have made a very happy family. And well, who doesn’t want the world to be filled with more people like this. But the world is not binary, and the British public is also a reluctant, nevertheless powerless, consumer of tabloid rhetoric. I remember the moment Diana died (I was 7) and my brother woke me and my mum up in the middle of the night. You cannot get away from Harry and his story as a Brit, even if you are too young to have ever read a newspaper, never mind a tabloid. So in some way, even though I have never really cared much either way for the Royal Family, and the monarchy, I feel we can’t escape it. And so I am really happy that Harry found happiness. I think they are great together.
But then what about his brother William? He has no choice but to accept the life he has been given. And I am sure there are times when William would like to up sticks with his family and give it all up. But he has a sense of duty and loyalty, and his own brother is painfully going through this while not being able to have his say but while still being expected to ‘perform’. It must be tremendously hard on Will and his father, because neither of them have done anything to deserve this. And I wonder if they feel like, regardless of the circus, this little documentary, that they have lost their brother and son. And that is tragic.
So, I am enjoying it so far, would recommend it if you can have some patience and a little open-mindedness. I hope they have their say, feel better for it and then (no disrespect to them) bugger off. Lol :)