Kafka’s Letters to Milena is a profound work, overflowing with intense emotions, yet marked by constant contradictions stemming from Kafka’s own inner turmoil. His anxiety, perhaps exacerbated by his illness, deeply colors his correspondence. As you dive deeper into the letters, you can’t help but feel that something is missing: Milena’s responses. Her voice, absent from the collection, leaves a notable void, prompting the reader to imagine what her letters might have said. This absence creates a lingering incompleteness, as we witness Kafka’s overwhelming love for Milena, but are left wondering how she truly felt about him. Although Kafka occasionally alludes to her feelings, the lack of her direct words makes it harder to fully grasp the depth of her emotions toward him.
What struck me most is the shift in Kafka’s relationship with the letters themselves. At the start, and even well into the middle of the book, Kafka speaks of how he cannot live without Milena’s letters, clinging to them as his lifeline. However, as the correspondence progresses, these very letters transform into a source of torment for him. This evolution—letters moving from a source of comfort to one of suffering—illustrates Kafka’s complex emotional state, encapsulating the paradoxes that define his love for Milena. You cannot prevent the book from affecting your emotions….