I think, that it’s about us who don’t take responsibility for our damn life. Who blame all the external world but ourselves. We are the reason of what we are now. Only we, nobody else. The scene, when Cooper blamed a divorce lawyer in his divorce, I realize, that he is as same as Rachel, who blame the boss, traffic, people around her! Just stay focused on yourself and don’t try to fix others. Fix your own life! That’s the point.