Chris is pathetic. You’re a grown man, nobody made decisions for you- that’s all on you. How you could do this to your pregnant wife and young children is evil. That said, be careful the decisions you make in life. If you really don’t want to be married and you really don’t want to have a child or more than one child you’re responsible for yourself and your decisions- you can’t blame it on anyone else. My husband and I have raised two sons and we say -you do not need to get married and you do not need to have children but if you choose to do it you’re in -your all in and that’s all there is to it. It’s called being an adult and being responsible.