First, you get the memoir that makes you want to have a bit; then you proceed to witness an honest and intrigue story of the author; before you know it, you are in West Africa, discovering, pausing to meditate, ruminating about how you have lived your life; and then you end up with a smile on your cheek and a silent voice in your head saying 'It was a wonderful read'. Having said that, let us remember not to create a problem for the future - the neglect of the boy-child.