I think Matt James missed a golden opportunity to help a non-black person understand why the photos taken nearly 3 yrs ago when she was 21 yrs. old were insensitive. I'm a white 70 yr old female born and raised in the Pacific Northwest in a very liberal state. I can't begin to put myself in his or anyone else's shoes and I think he could have and should have stayed with Rachael if he truly loved her and forgiven her lack of knowledge. He claims to be a man of faith as does she. I thought the Bible taught forgiveness, not turn and run when things got a little tough.