Not a huge fan of soul games. And I will preface with ELDEN RING IS EFFING HARD!!!. You need a lot of time to grind and explore and build your character if you want to succeed. However, it is a masterpiece that is a blast to play, it is amazingly beautiful, and fun to explore. It let's you take on the game how you see fit, and challenges the s*** out of you. If you have perseverance; the feeling of accomplishment and the feeling of overcoming adversity is like no other in any PVE game I've played. The feeling of triumph it gave me when I succeeded made it worth the grind and pain. I advise to have an easier back up game to play when this game is royally frustrating you to no end.
If you aren't down with what I explained above. DO NOT GET THIS GAME. Get gaurdians of the galaxy instead. I heard it has an easy mode.