DantMan2011 DantMan2011

Read Krutika Mulye‘s review it was/is exceptionally well written . I concur with her observations. Now my comment - The movie was a bittersweet observation of how the false illusions of mass marketing & luxury advertising has been accelerated by the millions of false highlight reels on TikTok, instagram, and facebook or dating sites (Tinder Hinge Bumble Bee etc, only Fans) have distorted and/9r heinously conspired to make everyone both very insecure personally and unrealistic relationally to the point that any investment in love becomes , just that only an investment that the story compels all to believe - that it’s just not worth it or maybe is?. I left the theater mentioning to all - that once married, I can almost guarantee that once your children are approximately 14-15 year old - the wife (maybe husband as well) will be more deeply evaluating or calculating whether it was all worth it to stay together (after now living through their initial selfish marriage expectations or all the false advertising of what it should or would actually be like for a lifetime- that always leaves out the amount of nonstop sacrifices and compromises required for long lasting success) and too much of the false advertisements that life would be so much better solely on your own terms (aka chasing the further illusions that the grass could be greener on the other side?) - and more so calculating that the down side risks of permanently separating has been substantially reduced due to the children’s ages towards self sufficiency and independence is so close) . My overly verbose point - the movie was so realistic in demonstrating the unrealistic nature of love , and the fact that love “is actually a job” that both parties have to truly love doing unselfishly for a lifetime , for it to genuinely last forever- otherwise it’s guaranteed to die. And continue dying in subsequent relationships- if you both never learn that critical lesson . My third or fourth observation lol : most never learn, because we are daily being trained to be exceedingly selfish , self interested (dare i say narcissistic) . Wow it was a great movie.