We are all entitled to our own truths and we should honor those. Harry did a wonderful job illustrating his truth. His writing was so easy to slip into. He was very careful in sharing his struggles without placing any emotional burdens on his readers. He acknowledged time and again that this was his perspective and while he couldn't tolerate the perspectives of his family, he respected that they had them and it didn't make him love them less. I hope his life continues to be lovely.