I think this is very brave. I like him! Yes, what he did was unwise, but we all make mistakes. Us 'regular' people get the luxury to make mistakes and only a handful of people know about it. When you're famous, the whole world learns about it. It is very easy to judge a person as if you are perfect and as if you know them. He didn't commit a crime. If he had, the police would have charged him. He made stupid decisions that have cost him dear. We've all done this, whether we want to admit it or not.
I think it's time to forgive him. I would give him a big hug (like the guy he spoke about in ep.1) and tell him that it will be ok.
I support you Phil!!! May the rest of your life be happy and I hope you find some peace. Good luck for the future my friend.