This book is well thought out for God-fearing couples, both men and women, to help create perspective as to why the other person might be acting a certain way or how they interpret a particular action. I was left a little wanting. I know this was published almost 20 years ago, but I would be interested to see if there is any updated literature for couples who are choosing not to have children. I can see how some of the tools suggested would be helpful, but I think some of the author's arguments might shift if children were not involved. This is the first book I have read by this author, and overall it was very helpful at presenting a fresh perspective on relationships.