Joni Terry

This show makes me cringe and feel sick to my stomach. I never should have watched it and before you say "well don't watch" I feel so bad for these daughters/sons/sons-in-law and potential son-in-laws/daughter-in-laws that love their mothers/mothers-in-laws so much that they are unable to see the forest for the trees. It's nothing wrong with loving your mom, she birthed you and taught you right from wrong and tried to educate you and teach you the basics of life and loving/helping others, but at this stage in your life I suggest you should be living your OWN lives. And until you cut the cord you might never be happy and live your own life and find your own happiness by yourself. Heaven forbid you and your mother/mother-in-laws may end up lonely with each other and no one else. Mothers' may I suggest, please stop trying to live your life through your children. You may make them miserable and they can't tell you that because they don't want to hurt you. No one may want them if you keep interfering with their lives and don't let go. Let them live their lives and trust that they will keep in mind all you have taught them, make mistakes, and pick themselves up and continue on to be happy within THEIR OWN LIVES. We as mothers/fathers try to build a good foundation and hope we have instilled in our kids the best we know how. Trust me I have made mistakes too and so have my children but they come around. I truly feel for these people if this is the life they live everyday. And just FyI Suh nee is over the top and cruel in my opinion and appears to be trying to take over her daughter's life and her daughters child. I pray the Lord will soften her heart and for her daughter to continue to love her mom but wake up and raise her own child and try to reconcile with the baby's father. Also the pageant mom, I understand your dream but is it really your daughters dream and do you ever think about how your other daughters feel with all the attention you seem to give to one. God bless and I pray for you all.