Ok so the movie definitely made me want to just fall in love and fall so deep into connection with someone that you just feel that deep feeling in your chest? 🤣😅 but, I love how it showed two emotionally closed off people just reaching out. If we look at just what happened throughout it just lol We can almost live in a figurative purgatory until we are truly saying and acting as we feel. Without expressing ourselves we are stuck in a state of wanting, yearning but not grasping or ever living or ever getting anything we really want in life. He didn't become real to the girl until she made him, by simply acting on her feelings and speaking them.