I was really on board until the binary gender stuff came in. The way it's described in here is super triggering for me as a woman who has been sexually assaulted multiple times. Women are not looking to be chased. Women are not all biologically into being objectified. People may be programmed to think in this manner due to societal education and continued habitual teachings such as this one. However, the way sexual interactions are discussed in this book reinforce rape culture statements that men who have raped me have told me gave them permission to rape me even though I begged them to stop. Pursuing a woman is not the ideal for all women.