My being a Mothers Against Drunk Driving speaker for 29-years, I've occasioned numerous people who struggled with grief to the point it made them forget who they were and who they are. Not everyone reacts to grief this way, and personally, I feel all things are acceptable in some transmutational way like fire refining gold, in that in God's Economy, nothing is wasted. Blur Circle addressed how we can freak out and get twisted, but how we can regain a new focus, far beyond the grief. Forgiveness is always deeper than the trauma that requires its presence. Great movie!