Tired of the sexism and double standard Captain Sandy uses where Malia is concerned. So Malia doesn't like to be called "Sweetheart", but she continuously refers to the males as "Boys". Try "Men" you sexist. If you expect to be respected as an individual, you must earn that respect. There's respecting rank and there's respecting the individual. You need to learn the difference. It's sad to see Captain Sandy not correcting her shortcomings. Leadership is definitely lacking this season.