Love this book and the movie. Steve seems to speak from experience and what he’s been told and witnessed. I don’t see how any woman would dislike this book. Some are speaking harsh about what they’ve heard about Steve’s past. Saying he doesn’t have room to talk. Well why not? Wisdom knowledge and teaching skills comes from life experiences. If Steve never had the experience or witnessed relationships, he wouldn’t be able to share his wisdom ,knowledge or understanding of how to Act Like A Woman and Think Like a Man. I don’t understand how any respectable woman would criticize him. “Ladies”Steve is saying value yourself.?Respect yourself, Love yourself and be patient. If you’re wanting a man to Love and Cherish you. The 90 day rule isn’t hard if you value yourself. I’ve want several years. If I told you how many you wouldn’t believe me. I once had a conversation with a young lady that had a 7 day rule that only lasted 2 or 3 days. She has 8 children by 7 different men. I guess Steve should have written his book in the 80,s. She may have read it and learned to value herself and her most prized possession “Her Cookies” She’s still singled and her children are grown.