I admit I can relate to being a doormat but, this book is super heteronormative and boring. It talks a lot about what women should be doing to get a man's attention and keep it but, a man of what quality? What will man offer you in return for following the advice of this book? No indications are given on what to look for in a quality partner. Even better, a feminist man. Is the book just teaching women how to aspire to a marriage of any kind? It's 2020, women don't need a provider anymore. We want an equal partner, co-parenting, and emotional support. Teach how to find a feminist man of quality. Not just a man.