Narcissistic Abuse is a very serious and dangerous thing to encounter.
Anybody trying to bash Sarma simply does not understand how narcissistic abuse works and how horribly devastating it is to the victim.
You are pretty much hypnotized slowly but surely. You do not know its happening and you do not see it coming.
It's master manipulation. It is extremely calculated and so confusing to the point it distorts your reality.
It's not something you would wish on even your worst enemies. While it's not something you can expect anybody else to understand unless if you have encountered it yourself.
Show compassion. She is a victim.