Just a piece of advice from a military guy. When you visit forts or deal with dead military members , you have to treat them as such. You need someone whoโs served that can relate to them on their plane. Who knows how to connect and maybe give orders or commands that will get a response. Military men will respect someone who they can tell are cut from the same cloth, versus someone just talking or demanding a response or to show themselves. Food for thought. Semper Fi