I found this movie a couple months after my husband took his own life and I can't even begin to say how much Spinster helps me cope. I know that wasn't to object of the movie but I've probably seen it a dozen times. He left me with a toddler so I'm not a spinster in the traditional sense but watching her grow and figure out her life during the year, I don't know... It's made my self esteem, which was completely shattered, grow a lot. It made me realize it's ok to be 37 and not be in a relationship and be comfortable working and being happy by myself. I found this movie right when I needed to see it and I highly recommend it.