This is a children's book? Shameful! How does not knowing your gender or how your body functions equate to a children's book? As grown people we may choose confusion or acceptance. Children are a blank piece of paper and the writing needs to be clear. Let them choose later on, don't muddy the water for them because your experience has been hard. All this nonsense gives a bully a job for life. Learn to love your self in whatever form that is but don't push your journey on other people much less a child.