There is nothing innocent about the Americans that go abroad to find a spouse, most of them misrepresent their lives in the U.S making the foreigner think that their lives will so good when they get here. Cheap ass Colt who is still attached to his Mom's umbilical cord, who in the world wants to live with Debbie. American's on this show are not sacrificing anything compared to the foreigners,their lives may not seem so great to us because are so spoiled but they are also leaving everyone that they know and love.
