i love this show, Amy why don!t you and Chris go together to pick out a new bedroom set,dishes,cups etc.get rid of all the stuff that you had at the farm,just take a few things from each child of yours,if you really want a new beginning,Chris is a really good guy and he really loves you,don!t repeat the past,and do things together.let Chris make some choices to.I know that you want things a certain way,but Chris will be living there to,he make not like all that you do and you might not like all that he does,but to live together you need to compromise