I can't stop talking about this book and like others, I find myself rethinking and reconsidering parts and that's so refreshing. This is so well written and both subtle and heavy-handed in just the right ways. I stayed up all night finishing it and then ordered it for my spouse who is also repeatedly delighted and annoyed by parts. (In the best ways). I love that I'm unable to dismiss the characters as they fumble and attempt to find meaning and hurt love themselves and each other in ways that are tragic, flawed, and human. Lastly, this could be me without a decade of good therapy and I don't mind saying so.