I did NOT expect to love this movie as much as I did by the end, in fact I expected to hate it. So I was pleasantly surprised to say the least. The premise itself sounded absurd to me, but it’s so masterfully crafted that the premise seemed like something we just ought to accept, the way Maren is meant to accept her identity as an eater. The juxtaposition between the cannibalism, the violence of it, and the mellow scenic views on the road, and the romance between Lee and Maren felt oddly comforting. You are aware throughout of the inevitable tragedy of being an eater; we see it in other characters (Maren’s mom, Sully, Lee and his father), but the way the story is told still convinces you there is some glimmer of hope for Maren. The performances are brilliant, the on-the-road cinematography and accompanying soundtrack feel like a healing salve, and the subtly powerful chemistry between Lee and Maren on screen attach you to their fate in a way few romantic movies are able to accomplish.
I think this movie isn’t meant to be taken literally as a glorificiation of violence and cannibalism, and the people who took it that way likely hated it and left one star reviews. It’s an unconventional coming of age movie that is thematicatically and symbolically rich. My intepretation of it being that it is, above all things, a movie about growing comfortable with emotional intimacy and vulnerability, hence the title and concept of consuming or being consumed bones and all. It makes sense that it is only after Lee fully opens up to Maren about his father that she then consumes him completely. To me, cannibalism as a symbol of emotional initimacy and vulnerablity makes a lot of sense. It’s both incredibly painful and cathartic to let someone accept the “bones” of you, especially when you’ve had to live your life in isolation after being rejected by society for being different. The difference here of cannibalism seems purposefully exaggerated to test our limits as viewers. All that said, it’s a movie that is meant to be more felt than understood. And man did it make me feel things.