I think it’s BS that Bravo acts like there is a blog for cast members. I want to tell Melissa Gorga that she needs to quit comparing herself to Margaret who has no young children at home. You are sacrificing your children and marriage to a good man when you should be focusing on family. Trust me there are many years you will regret not being there for your children. You have plenty of time for personal success, it should not be a competition. Believe me from a mom who missed out!