Edrin C Jossy

A book that tells the mind blowing history of Kashmiri Pandits. Author well described the humiliations beyond the limits.

Must read one... Wonderful to read.

Gray uses lots of examples from couples he has worked with and within these examples I could spot elements of my relationship. The beauty is, he gave practical pointers on what I could do to change myself, so that the outcome changed, for the better. In the personal development world, you learn that the only person you can change is yourself – no-one can change their partner. Gray gives you some tools to help with this process. However, by changing my reaction, ultimately I can change Johns reaction to me (and me to him), and within that lies improved communication and closeness.