It’s so easy to make the parents a scapegoat. I do understand that the kids are trying to spread their wings but they have to understand they are not parents and it all looks different when you are raising your own children and trying to do what they think is right for their family. The older kids, I believe are being disrespectful and need to do their own life but can’t expect the parents to all of the sudden change their beliefs because the kids have become “enlightened.” They will find that the way of the world are quite wild.