Nice book, at most of the time it seems like author is just telling about me. It feels like it is going to help a lot in understanding opposite sex a lot as well as understanding why you react in certain manner in a particular situation or conversation. You may use some of the ideas to improve your relationship and to live a healthy social life. Though sometimes it may feel like that it will help you only if other person had also read that book. But overall it is a very well written book by author John Gray.