I wish Danielle would quit trying so hard to be the 'fun' mom and realize that being a disciplinarian is a HUGE part of being a parent. Lady, if you don't get your girls under control now it'll be less fun down the road. Put in the hard work/tough love, and it'll be easier later because they'll know what the expectations are and where the boundaries lay. THEN you can be 'friends' with them. A mom is one who parents children with both love AND discipline.