I'm not sure how I feel about Harlem. I love and respect each actor and actress and it could be that I am somewhere else in my life journey. As an older woman my 20 something can relate to some, but not all of the storyline. I felt bad at fist because I felt maybe I was missing something, but after asking friends to watch and provide feedback...there consensus was the same. I'm proud and happy for each actress and actor. I'm also finding that my friends as well as myself and others are beginning to enjoy foreign shows. Many are void of so much profanity and everything built on sex.