Very disappointed in how Julia "helped" the Sara the 19 year who was considering leaving her community. Giving this young woman a vibrator was cheap and tacky. If I had the resources to help a person, in Sara situation, I would have showed her how to enroll in community college courses, help her get a drivers license, help her get a job, assist her in getting a bank account, make sure she has her SSN memorized, encourage her to get her DL, have a serious discussion about the cost of living in NY, and most importantly find a good therapist!