The couple who's now not speaking but M livingbin the same house for their childrens sake because the husband had an affair. I've been married for going on 41 years. If you want to have a successful marriage you have to be realistic. Men are never totally faithful. They were not made to be monogamous or either they wouldn't give in to their physical needs when ever a new woman offers it up. Shes probably nothing like you. Your the person he choose to marry and have carry on his Gene's mixed with yours. Shes just trash picking up your left bbn overs. Feel sorry for her but dont continue to have bitter relationships with your friends because your were hurt. You shouldnt want to hurt your friends because you were hurt!