Michael holds too much in, because he doesn't trust. Meka will have to be patience if they plan on staying married. There's some underline issues going with him that he has not let go of.
Meka doesn't have the answers for him and its confusing to her. She has to have her husband back in front of others. As young women I don't think they know or has eer experience that.
We as women have to be willing to learn that and it has nothing to do with being 'submissive', but LOVE! You don't discipline or talk about the wrong your husband is doing to other women, you talk to them, but not as a child.