A very powerful book which includes a challenge to play the "race game," where you identify anyone who happens to be white as white in your everyday conversation. So you'd say, for example, "Yeah last night I went to the movies with my white friend, Sue." Sounds strange, right? But we take it for granted when we say, "Yeah last night I went to the movies with my Asian friend, Steve." Thandeka explores why this is with powerful, illuminating stories, and brilliant intellectual insight.