In the beginning it had a sweet air about it but as the seasons have progressed it's become more about publicity and spending. I love all the girls! They are each growing and coming into their own and I think that they are all extremely intelligent. Discipline is handled well for small acts but not consistent enough for them to know that hitting, pinching and hair pulling is wrong. They adapt to every new "punishment " that Adam and Danielle come up with and none of it has stopped. I can honestly say that I don't know what's going to work but you need to find it and find it soon. I don't know why you haven't realized that when Riley is throwing a tantrum, something is bothering her, it's as miserable for her as it is for you. As smart as she is she learned early that attention is attention, whether it's positive or negative. Give her what she so desperately wants.