We people in the real world just grow up. Yeah you can have everything...(so they say). And voila, you cannot! That us why we are misrabke because real life catches up with you and sorry, we cannot have it all. So here we have a woman who wishes to ruin the lives of her family for a good bang? And here we have a guy, who wishes to work it out with his wife because he wishes akso to have it all too...again LIE. So in life, we grown ups choose. But we cannot have a cake and eat it too...chokse!