There is a chilling moment in the documentary. Robbins confronts a woman who adores her father. She speaks in the most glowing terms about him while Robbins nods knowingly and suggests that he treated this girl like his "little princess." Then, he goes with the nuclear option.
"Motherf#$%ker!", he bellows in his raspy voice. "He meant well but look how he f@#cked up."
There is a discernible gasp in the audience as Robbins educates her to the fact that her father ruined her life. Whatever her issues, Dad is responsible.
Just when you think Robbins couldn't sink any lower to play the "guru" he purports not to be, he cajoles the woman to call her boyfriend, put him on speaker phone, and break up with him with thousands of people listening in. "Pick up your fu$kin' phone,” he commands her. She meekly does and the rest is a pop-psyche legend for all the wrong reasons. It demonstrates Robbins can talk someone suffering enough into almost anything.
It's been years since I've thought of this thin slice of "I Am Not Your Guru" and still find Robbins' "intervention" elicits a shudder of disgust. Perhaps the best word to describe it is "atrocious". Robbins gives no sign that he is concerned about the potential fallout for this woman, her father, and boyfriend for the vulnerabilty, trust, and naivete that brought her to this ghastly moment in her life.
It is sobering to think that so many people--countless thousands--believe he offers the way to a better life.
Francis Thompson wrote in :"The Hound of Heaven", "A dog starving at his master's gate predicts the ruin of the state."
This woman came to Robbins hungry for counsel, she was bullied into a choice that could have had devastating consequences.
Consider yourself warned. It could happen to you.